He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

My daughter asked me to receive this book as a birthday gift. I ordered & came in excellent conditions & super fast.

Her birthday is on November 17, a friend of her read it & said it was awsome.

Ladies, have heart -- we DON'T need to put up with this confusing male behavior any longer!! This book, written with humor & wisdom, addresses our most common questions about "Why would he act like that?" In spite of the title, you will feel MUCH better about what you have to offer in a dating situation after reading this fun (yet very serious) book.

I get the point of this book, but I much prefer the kinder & more dignified "Ditching Mr. Wrong" by Nicholas Aretakis, which also covers how to move on, begin dating again, quickly assess your new man, & form a wonderful relationship. "He's Just Not That Into You" doesn't help you form a new, worthwhile relationship, & that is of course the desired result of this whole dating game. "Ditching Mr. Wrong" is a fun, interesting & more informative read.

This is one of those books that spells out 4 us what we already know deep down inside: whether or not a guy is truly "ours".

On some level most women do understand this, but some fail to identify this truth & apply it. They may be in denial, they may find a challenging man irresistible, etc.

By the time you are making excuses 4 a man (he's busy, he's shy, he's afraid of commitment, etc) the embers are already dying & the cause is already lost.

I hate to quote a Sex & the City character, but it IS liberating once you understand this concept. Once you respect that it is the man's "job" to pursue you, you will rest easy & no longer labor or struggle to make a relationship work. In short, the relationship shouldn't be "work" 4 the woman, & if it is, then something is wrong.

I would not call this book ground-breaking, but it is a good primer that sheds light on the male-female dynamic.

This is the kind of book that can spell out 4 you the very thing that you may be failing to articulate 4 yourself.

Read this book & live by it's rules. Your life as a lady will be so much less coomplicated. It will take any power you idiotically gave to a man & give it back to you. Ladies stop taking excusses from them, stop waiting 4 there calls, & stop crying over them. No man is worth your tears. It's time to take back your power.
Also a great book to couple this one with is "Why Men Love Bitches" (I know, i don't like the title either, but it works!)

Relationshhips wont be nothin' but a thang when you get through with these two books.
HOLLA

Based on an episode of "Sex & the City," offers a lighthearted, no-nonsense look at dead-end relationships, with advice 4 letting go & moving on.